
“An aha moment is a moment of clarity, a defining moment where you gain real wisdom, wisdom you can use to change your life.”
I believe we’ve all had aha moments in our lives. We fell in love, we said goodbye. We hold our child in our arms for the first time, relocated, dared, said no, said yes. And as trite as it might sound, those unmistakable moments enabled us to placate fear, learn our lessons, and enact a different life for ourselves.
I’ve been insanely lucky. I’ve had two aha moments this summer. The first one was delivered to me by my amazing fellow Shutter Sister Karen Walrond. The second one happened a couple of weeks ago, after I had been spending a week shuttling between my domestic life and a tiny little table in a café where I sat and wrote on my journal while my kids were at sports camp. If you’ve ever worked from home and ever found yourself folding laundry and longing to retreat to your room to write that one last chapter instead or grab your camera to catch the evening light wrapping the skyline, you know what I’m talking about. And the guilt, oh the guilt that follows your saying “not now” or “later” to another game of Connect Four. And eventually shatters your hopes as you put the journal away, sit down and smile, your kids beaming with satisfaction.
I remember thinking then “is it even possible? To be a mother, a writer and a photographer? How do others do it? Maybe it’s me. Maybe I’m not suited for this life.” I emailed my wonderful writer/photographer friend and shared my discouragement and conflicted feelings with her. She wrote back: “Irene, I know this feels like a problem, but try on this interpretation: This is no problem. What you have is a routine and a set of expectations that you’ve created. And you can create new ones. No problem.”
That was my second aha moment.
Today I invite you to share your aha moments in the comment section below, with words and images. I firmly believe that one story can make a difference in someone else’s life, inspire, and kindle hope. And I want you to know, if you’re still wondering, if you keep asking yourself. Yes, it is possible for you to raise happy children and lead a creative and fulfilling life. It takes a lot of work and it’s not always easy, but it is possible.
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