Circles

Today, I photographed a birth. I saw a human being breathe air for the first time. It was the first portrait session that has ever made me cry to the point that I had trouble focusing. And it was a huge honor.
Today I also read the deeply moving tribute that my cousin Leah wrote about her Grandmother (my great Aunt Isabel) who has recently passed. Unfortunately, I never had the chance to get to know her. But it made me think about my own Grandmother's passing. How one day she was there. The next day, she was not. She had overcome countless obstacles in her long life. She had been strong, unwavering, determined. Way ahead of her time, she had even been The Lieutenant Commander. Then one day she was fragile, and flew away.
Today I'm feeling the circle of things. Maybe I'm also feeling melancholy and sentimental. I spent the evening going through old photographs, in the big bin. We all have them, don't we? The big bin? The one that sits unassumingly in your attic or basement. Mostly ignored, and taken for granted, it stores all your treasure memories. Summer camp. That boy. That note. That time. The way she laughed. The big bin stores the tangible evidence of your minutes. Just in case you forget. Because in the end, it's just not about the shutterspeed, or photoshop, or those cool new actions you just bought. In the end, all that matters is the Remembering.
Want to share your favorites? The ones that help you remember?
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Response: SidenoteThis post from Maile has me rummaging through my bin of photographs, memorabilia and old (gasp!) handwritten journals.











Reader Comments (41)
i'm photographing one of my best friends births next month and am so excited and honoured to be asked to witness this emergence through the viewfinder!
this post also has me thinking of all the photo albums at my parents house that we go through each year. so beautiful!
Here is one of my favorites. I can still remember this moment as if it had just happened.
http://www.flickr.com/photos/muckyyuck/2296098934/
So cool, you got to photograph a birth. :)
Wishing you peace and love. Patty
Funny you should be writing this today -- I've actually spent the last few days going through my archives to put together a book for my daughter's 4th birthday celebration at her school. In doing so, I found my favourite newborn picture of her:
http://chookooloonks.blogphotography.com/archives/7899_1714915339/281315
and my favourite picture of her ever (taken for future blackmailing purposes):
http://chookooloonks.blogphotography.com/archives/7899_1714915339/281516
Great post!
K.
Here's one of my favorites--from when my siblings and I were little. We had such a great time together. It's such a funny picture.
http://www.flickr.com/photos/ginnahendricks/2296297394/
I think I owe my mom for my love of photography...
I'll have to think on what I'm going to post for today and come back to it. So many memories :)
Picture/post about my grandparent's house:
http://springtreeroad.typepad.com/springtreeroad/2008/01/dreams-of-sprin.html
My grandparents' back patio:
http://springtreeroad.typepad.com/springtreeroad/2008/02/since-i-started.html
http://www.flickr.com/photos/73498912@N00/387034212/in/set-72157594530759010/
http://siobhanconnally.com/
Like this one:
http://www.flickr.com/photos/cherryfizzy/2249246721/
This is my daughter at my grandmother's gravesite. My grandmother, like Maile's, seemed simply to fly away one day - too soon to know her great-granddaughter. The moment captured here - uncomplicated, quiet and just lucky on my part - is a tender reminder to me of how fragile and lovely the life cycle truly is...
I love looking through old photos and remembering. Mine isn't very touching or sentimental, but something I should definitely remember.
http://www.flickr.com/photos/sparkphoto/2295738821/
http://flickr.com/photos/jeroldssis/2296605826/?eOrig=2296586620
There's a time and place for the creative "perfect" shots. And there's a time and a place to capture the moment in all its imperfection.
Thanks for the reminder and inspiration.
They don't as much hold memories for me as they do tie me to my immediate family. They tell me of where I came from, and make me reflect on my favorite things about my mother, my aunt, my sisters. My children. Their children.
My favorite isn't actually a photograph, but a handwritten journal entry that I later published online after my grandmother passed:
http://krystynheide.com/blog/2007/4/7/come-rain-or-shine.html
There are many days when I'm feeling overwhelmed and defeated, and reading this reminds me that snapping out of it is only a rootbeer float or a pincurl away. :)
I put together a Flickr set a couple years ago of photos from my Dad's life: http://www.flickr.com/photos/sierraromeo/sets/72057594127203690/detail/
Thanks for the post, Maile.
http://www.caringbridge.org/md/calebsmith/index.htm
http://www.flickr.com/photos/justexpressive/2296829640/
It's from '06 and the first time my son experienced "real" snow.
He had been so joyous all afternoon but when I got this shot he looked like he had the weight of the world on his shoulders. I still don't know what he was so deep in thought about but I love how serious his expression is, and how small he seems.