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Love Thursday: February 7th, 2008

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While I certain can appreciate a well-put together outfit and I admire women who have an innate sense of style, I have to admit that I'm personally too lazy to cultivate much fashion or style in my life.  I mean, I'm not a slob or anything:  for example, I do try to wear at least a little lipstick when I go out in public; however, I wear my hair the same way every day, I keep my nails short because I really couldn't be bothered with a manicure, and not a day goes by when I don't thank God my eyebrows are relatively thin, because there's no way in hell I'm spending precious moments plucking them.    

But really, I'm not a slob.  Ahem.

Anyway, my laziness extends to my jewelry choices as well -- I don't wear earrings, and I tend to wear the same necklace for months on end.  I love my wedding rings not just because I think they're pretty, but also because I don't have to think about what to wear on my left hand every day.  The thing is, though, I  do like rings, and my right hand feels naked without them; however, toward the end of last year I realized I'd amassed a large enough assortment of rings that I spent far too much time each day (in my opinion) being overwhelmed by the choices.  So when Marcus asked me what I wanted for Christmas, my answer was quick:

 "Well," I said, "I think I'd like a ring for my right hand.  I don't want anything fancy or expensive, but I think that if you gave it to me for Christmas, it would me a lot to me, and I wouldn't want to take it off."

Marcus smiled.  "Okay.  But you pick it out.  That way you'll get something you like."

So I did.  It was a sweet little ring, a wide silver band, very simple.  Marcus ordered it, and come Christmas morning, I opened it gratefully.

But then I noticed another box.  "That's the second one I ordered," Marcus said.

The second one, it turned out, is the ring you see above -- a thin silver band with the words "I love you forever" engraved on one side.  It's a ring Marcus picked out without my input, and it fits perfectly against the band I chose.   I wear them together, keeping the words hidden between the bands.  The set means more to me than I can express.  I never take them off.

 Happy Love Thursday, everyone.  Please leave your links to your images of love in the comments, below (for inspiration:  the beautiful images left by HipMomma, freakparade and beebee mod in the Shutter Sisters Flickr pool). 

And may you reflect on those symbols of the love in your life today.

(Update:  Because some of you have asked, you can find the ring in the Sundance Jewelry catalog.  That particular ring  -- showing what's on the other side -- can be found here.)

Posted on Thursday, February 7, 2008 by Registered CommenterKaren Walrond in , | Comments94 Comments | References1 Reference

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happy love thursday! my son loves glue. i love his creations...
http://www.flickr.com/photos/camerashymomma/2247371109/
February 7, 2008 | Unregistered Commentercamerashymomma
What a lovely ring and story.
Here is something I love as well.
http://nikkipolani.wordpress.com/2008/02/06/love-thursday-love/
February 7, 2008 | Unregistered Commenternikkipolani
I love that story - and the ring. This is a shot of my son, and by the looks of things, is in love with himself.

http://vancouverhometown.blogspot.com/2008/02/love-thursday.html
February 7, 2008 | Unregistered CommenterAnna
Karen, that image is exquisite.
My post makes me weepy but it's full of 18 years of love.
http://maypapers.blogspot.com/2008/02/love-and-loss-almost.html
February 7, 2008 | Registered CommenterTracey Clark
What a wonderful gift. So sweet.

Here is my contribution...because she is growing afar too quickly, and every once in awhile, I look at her and don't see any baby left at all...and my heart breaks a little.

http://flickr.com/photos/muckyyuck/2246596796/
February 7, 2008 | Unregistered Commentermel from freak parade
I love your ring! And I probably know exactly where he got it. I bought a similar ring for my husband this last Valentine's day, and had our daughter's name and birthdate stamped into it. So priceless, and so very sweet.

Lucky gal you are :)
February 7, 2008 | Unregistered CommenterLisa
What a lovely story and a sweet gift. The ring is beautiful.

My love Thursday contribution this week is one of my best friend and I, after he'd asked me to marry him... http://farm2.static.flickr.com/1222/757562210_bd3b9d5012.jpg
February 7, 2008 | Unregistered Commenterstacelet
I love it when you capture just that perfect, perfect moment... like this moment of love between my husband and our son:

http://www.flickr.com/photos/shama-lama_mama/2194612004/
February 7, 2008 | Unregistered CommenterShama-Lama Mama
Beautiful ring. Your husband has great taste, and sounds like a true romantic.

Here's my contribution for love Thursday:
http://www.flickr.com/photos/giggletwig/2247309173/
February 7, 2008 | Unregistered Commentercorey
I am finally getting in some sewing.
http://www.flickr.com/photos/enckline/2240378440/
February 7, 2008 | Unregistered Commenterchristie
It's certainly not the best picture, but for "love Thursday", it takes the cake. http://www.flickr.com/photos/jeroldssis/2248268832/
February 7, 2008 | Unregistered CommenterChris
Oh how I love Love Thursday! This one shows neighborly love -- my husband and I just bought a house down the street from an elementary school and received this little gift from the 4th grade class last week.

http://www.flickr.com/photos/hstender/2240409450/
February 7, 2008 | Unregistered Commenterheidi
loving what you guys are doing over here. wanted to join in with a post about loving a book, a dog, and a quote about loving ourselves for the people we love in our lives. lot's o love.
http://kellyraeroberts.blogspot.com/2008/02/love-thursdays.html
February 7, 2008 | Unregistered Commenterkelly rae
That is a wonderful story and I love the ring! Here is my post!

http://analisfirstamendment.blogspot.com/2008/02/love-thursday.html
February 7, 2008 | Unregistered CommenterAnali
My husband just got me a new ring this Christmas... The first one he has ever picked out without my help & I absolutely LOVE it... I am the same way about my jewelry as you are!
that is too funny!!

Here is my Love Thursday contribution for this week.
It's all about finding LOVE when & where you least expect it.
http://jessicanew.blogspot.com/2008/02/love-in-strange-places.html
February 7, 2008 | Unregistered Commenterjessica new
What a gorgeous story. Me? I have a case of puppy love this week:

http://shuttersisters.com/home/2008/2/7/love-thursday-february-7th-2008.html


Happy Love Thursday everyone! I'm so happy that this is back :)
February 7, 2008 | Unregistered Commenterbleeding espresso
Gah! Wrong link! (Please feel free to delete previous comment.)

Again:

What a gorgeous story. Me? I have a case of puppy love this week:

http://bleedingespresso.com/2008/02/love-thursday-letting-sleeping-dogs-lie.html

Happy Love Thursday everyone! I'm so happy that this is back :)
February 7, 2008 | Unregistered Commenterbleeding espresso
Wonderful post. Thanks for inspiring me this week with my contribution to Love Thursday:

http://loislanelive.wordpress.com/2008/02/07/love-thursday-2/
February 7, 2008 | Unregistered CommenterLois Lane
Here is my daughter with her bestfriend, having a bestfriend is lovely http://kt40.wordpress.com/2008/01/29/best-friends/ happy Love Thursday everyone! kt
February 7, 2008 | Unregistered Commenterkt
Here is my daughter with her bestfriend, having a bestfriend is lovely. http://kt40.wordpress.com/2008/01/29/best-friends/ Happy Love Thursday everyone! kt
February 7, 2008 | Unregistered Commenterkt
here's a picture of someone who is constantly teaching me how to love, along with some notes of links i love this week....

http://www.jenlemen.com/blog/?p=321
February 7, 2008 | Unregistered Commenterjen lemen
I love the Spring and miss the sun

http://birchsprite.blogspot.com/2008/02/look-at-leaves.html

So for some reason my Love thursday contribution is a B&W shot... it doesn't make much sense.
February 7, 2008 | Unregistered Commenterbirchsprite
Gorgeous ring, and deeply lovely pic.

Here's mine:

http://tinyurl.com/2m6td3
February 7, 2008 | Unregistered CommenterTo Think is to Create
Again, I have the sibling love, but what can I say? It melts me into a lovey mama puddle of goo.
http://www.flickr.com/photos/55899304@N00/2245052040/
February 7, 2008 | Unregistered CommenterBunny

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