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Love Thursday: For Real

Shot during the Shutter Sister Photo Walk this past weekend, San Francisco, California.


Conversation earlier this week in the car after picking Alex up from school:

Alex: Mom?
Me: Child?
Alex: Manish doesn't like me.
Me: Why do you think he doesn't like you?
Alex: Because he's mean to me and he tells lies to me and he's not nice to me.
Me: Hm. Well, you know what, Al?
Alex: What, Mom?
Me: Sometimes, people aren't very nice because they feel like people don't love them. So they're mean because they figure that if no one loves them, they might as well be mean.
Alex: That's why they're mean?
Me: Yup. And sometimes, the best thing you can do to a mean person is love them. You just love them and love them and love them, and then they don't have any choice but to be nice.

Pause.

Alex: Mom?
Me: Yeah, kid?
Alex: I'm going to love Manish tomorrow.
Me: Al, I think that's a great idea.
Alex: Because, Mom? You know what, Mom? You know what?
Me: What's that?
Alex: I'm going to love Manish because love is the coolest thing ever.
Me: That's great, Alex. I think so, too.
Alex: For real.

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Happy Love Thursday, everyone.  Please leave your links to your images of love in the comments section below, and be sure to check out the great images left by Ivy R and ~anjie for inspiration.

And may you take the time to love someone today.  For real


(Full disclosure:  this post was also cross-posted at my personal site.)

Posted on Thursday, July 24, 2008 by Registered CommenterKaren Walrond in , | Comments67 Comments | References3 References

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Reader Comments (67)

oh my, that is beautiful karen.
July 24, 2008 | Unregistered Commentermaile
Amazing kid, amazing!

Beautiful photo! I'm putting one up for the first time this week! Enjoy!

http://www.flickr.com/photos/sherrysdigitalbliss/2694883152/
July 24, 2008 | Unregistered CommenterSherrysDigitalBliss
What a great conversation and lovely picture : )

http://fullyalive-readytosmile.com/2008/07/love-thursday.html
July 24, 2008 | Unregistered CommenterErin
Here is mine for the week...a little summer time love as told by my four.
http://wifemotherpainter.typepad.com/my_weblog/2008/07/summer-love-a-l.html
July 24, 2008 | Unregistered CommenterAndie
Such wisdom! Thank you thank you thank you!

http://www.dolcepics.com/dailypic/sun-lovin/
July 24, 2008 | Unregistered Commenterlaura - dolcepics
kids are all about the love. Isn't that great?
http://www.flickr.com/photos/enckline/2697237885/
July 24, 2008 | Unregistered CommenterChristie
What a great post. I blubbered like an idiot when I read it, especially after my heart-wrenching weekend. You may have seen it before, but for Love Thursday it's just too fitting. For me, anyway.
http://www.flickr.com/photos/jeroldssis/2691302773/in/set-72157606306756654/
July 24, 2008 | Unregistered CommenterChris
Coolest thing ever is right :)

My mom came to visit me for a month in southern Italy! So much fun:

http://bleedingespresso.com/2008/07/love-thursday-photo-shoot-with-mom.html

Happy Love Thursday everyone!
July 24, 2008 | Unregistered Commenterbleeding espresso
Love is definitely the coolest thing ever!

Happy love thursday!
http://www.flickr.com/photos/23132596@N07/2698237936/
July 24, 2008 | Unregistered CommenterKaren G
That is awesome... I love it.

This week, I'm finding love in bunches...

http://raesrambles.wordpress.com/2008/07/24/love-bunches/
July 24, 2008 | Unregistered CommenterStephanie
I found a young boy - one morning - standing silently and patiently fishing with his father. Love.

http://bravo.unisonplatform.com/~marciesc/index.php?showimage=465
July 24, 2008 | Unregistered CommenterMarcie
my first love thursday contribution.
hope it's not the last!
http://www.flickr.com/photos/whimsicalviews/2697482535/
July 24, 2008 | Unregistered Commenterpen
July 24, 2008 | Unregistered CommenterKatherine
Way cool photograph, but the story is even better. Something we should all live by. Thanks for the reminder.
July 24, 2008 | Unregistered CommenterGayle
great talk, and insight! happy LT hugs.

http://www.flickr.com/photos/14811117@N02/2697733143/
July 24, 2008 | Unregistered Commenterkristin
this is a photo of my son lou and my grandson dave. dave is named after my late husband and holds a special place in all of our hearts.
July 24, 2008 | Unregistered Commentermargie
love those priceless insights from our children!
http://redorgray-dependsontheday.blogspot.com/
July 24, 2008 | Unregistered CommenterELK
There's a special kind of love between my young kids and their great-grandmother... I think it brings out the very best in all of them.

http://www.flickr.com/photos/21106607@N05/2678150002/
July 24, 2008 | Unregistered Commentermel
Here is my love picture. So funny because I took this last week for my wedding anniversary self portrait!

http://www.flickr.com/photos/stephd123/2683264962/
July 24, 2008 | Unregistered CommenterStephanie D
Well, now I just see them EVERYWHERE. Even making breakfast for my little guy!
http://www.flickr.com/photos/ko2008/2698623796/
July 24, 2008 | Unregistered CommenterKathleen
http://www.flickr.com/photos/edarcy/2697378916/

Booking a photo shoot-I start to doubt my abilities. Who am I kidding? What makes me think I can charge people for these? It's all a joke... Maybe I should just give up taking pictures of people and just take pictures of things...
And then I found my firsts, and I think it's going to be okay..
July 24, 2008 | Unregistered Commentere.darcy
Great conversation! Priceless.

My own priceless capture of my two loves on the beach.

http://www.flickr.com/photos/25773211@N07/2697841347/
July 24, 2008 | Unregistered Commentermnkathy
Love can take you back.
July 24, 2008 | Unregistered Commenterjfrancis

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