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Love Thursday: Love, our way

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 When it comes to our daughter Alex, my husband Marcus is much better than I am at entertaining: he will play with Alex for, literally, hours. Weekends are filled with them riding bikes, shooting baskets, swimming in my parents' pool, whatever. If it involves play, Marcus is generally the parent on call -- I'm often inside on my computer, or reading a book, or generally keeping to myself. Marcus, while unfailingly attentive, is also The Fun One.

But when it's time to talk, I'm on duty. Every morning when Alex gets up and every night before she goes to bed, we snuggle and talk. Every afternoon that I pick her up after school, we spend some time discussing current events. Sometimes we talk about light subjects, like what happened during her school day, or why it's tough to decide which is better, ballet or gymnastics, or whether popcorn is tastier than cheesy toast. But sometimes we talk about deeper subjects, like what happens when you die, or why parents will do anything and everything to protect their kids, or why the most important thing is to be kind to yourself and kind to other people.

 I guess we just love her each in our own special way. 

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Happy Love Thursday, everyone.  Please leave your links of images of love in the comments section below, and  be sure to check out the beautiful shots by Belle & Bear and {Kate C.} left in our Flickr pool for inspiration.

And may you find your own special way to love someone today. 

Posted on Thursday, July 3, 2008 by Registered CommenterKaren Walrond in , | Comments59 Comments | References1 Reference

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abstract love for this Love Thursday:
http://www.flickr.com/photos/atheart/2632348527/

HLT to all!
July 3, 2008 | Unregistered Commenternatala
It's not the best shot. And I'm not even sure why I'm so obsessed with it -- but I think it's the love I see there. Little girls walking with their Daddy. So certain he's there that night, which can be so frightening, isn't.

http://www.flickr.com/photos/11439752@N04/2586024010/
July 3, 2008 | Unregistered CommenterLyn
Lovely post! :)

Happy Love Thursday everyone!

http://luckynumbreight.blogspot.com/2008/07/love-thursday.html
July 3, 2008 | Unregistered Commenterxtina
I love the smile in Alex's eyes.

Here's my love thursday post:
http://nikkipolani.wordpress.com/2008/07/02/love-thursday-blue/
July 3, 2008 | Unregistered Commenternikkipolani
Look at the love she has for her daddy! You can see it in her eyes.

My different take on Love Thursday this week is here:
http://chocolateonmycranium.blogspot.com/2008/07/flag-chimes.html
July 3, 2008 | Unregistered CommenterCocoa
what great balance you both provide for alex. it's the best of both worlds, and it's true love no matter how you slice it.

happy love thursday, here's my heart and my son's passion:
http://www.flickr.com/photos/camerashymomma/2632527073/
July 3, 2008 | Unregistered Commentercamerashymomma
Wishing everyone love and peace. Especially this Thursday!

http://www.flickr.com/photos/veridianblue/2603443208/
July 3, 2008 | Unregistered CommenterJennifer
Such a sweet sweet photo! You can see how much Alex adores her Daddy!

What's cuter than two babies sweet on each other?

http://www.dolcepics.com/dailypic/sweet-on-you/

Makes me melt!
July 3, 2008 | Unregistered Commenterlaura - dolcepics
Once you find it..you'll wonder why you didn't see it in the first place. Happy Love Thursday!

http://www.marciescudderphotography.com/index.php?showimage=444
July 3, 2008 | Unregistered CommenterMarcie
As I was walking in the yard the other day, I noticed how all the the leaves on our tree look like a heart. Almost as if the tree is showing it's love for us, as much as we love it - for the shade on the front lawn, for the color it adds in the fall, for the sweet little chirp of the birds that call it home. Yes, these leaves remind me of hearts, and that love really is all around us.

http://raesrambles.wordpress.com/2008/07/03/love-thursday/
July 3, 2008 | Unregistered CommenterStephanie
Hi, I'm new here. I have been lurking for awhile and finally decided I would join in. Here's my take on love this week....

Gestures of love between siblings don't always happen as often as I'd like them to, but sometimes it shows up when you least expect it.
http://farm3.static.flickr.com/2154/2543953204_4a0eda5c15.jpg?v=0
July 3, 2008 | Unregistered CommenterMycrazylife
Alex looks like she's about to pounce on her daddy. Priceless. Mine's up: http://graymattersonline.net/2008/07/03/love-thursday-34/
this washed out picture reminds me of some my father took when I was growing up.
July 3, 2008 | Unregistered Commenterangie
Last week at the beach.. the two people I love more than anything:

http://amanda.smugmug.com/gallery/5296510_Pc25n/1/323116364_BRoUc/Large
July 3, 2008 | Unregistered Commenteramanda
I have a couple of Love Thursday shots for you today. I spent a special day last weekend with my friend Heather at the Lansing Pride parade. Do you have one of those friends that you can go weeks or months without seeing and when you get together it’s like nothing has changed? Well, that is my friend heather…

Here she is with her partner/wife, and they make a great pair!
http://www.flickr.com/photos/lysrian/2631651844/

Not sure which of these I like better…
http://www.flickr.com/photos/lysrian/2623932417/
http://www.flickr.com/photos/lysrian/2624747238/



And here is an anonymous shot during the mass joining on the steps of the capitol building. These two were a very sweet couple and very much in love.
http://www.flickr.com/photos/lysrian/2625156590/


Happy Love Thursday!
July 3, 2008 | Unregistered CommenterLysrian
Happy Love Thursday.
This photo is two little flowers that I found last night while trying out my new lens. They look as if they are hugging or holding one another.
http://www.flickr.com/photos/i_love_photography/2633005535/

http://emilymphotography.wordpress.com/
July 3, 2008 | Unregistered CommenterEmily
yesterday was such a fulfilling day of shooting. i feel quite full this love thursday. happy LT and happy shooting to all!

http://www.flickr.com/photos/14811117@N02/2632203131/

July 3, 2008 | Unregistered Commenterkristin
This shot of love was taken right after an ENTIRE box of stickers was gleefully tossed all over our kitchen. Oh, much love was needed to keep my patience after that one...He didn't even know the heart was stuck on his forehead!
http://www.flickr.com/photos/ko2008/2579861117/
July 3, 2008 | Unregistered CommenterKathleen
A 4th of July themed picture for today's Love Thursday...

http://cotterpinhouse.wordpress.com/2008/07/03/land-that-i-love/
July 3, 2008 | Unregistered Commentercotterpin
What a lovely shot, and my family has the same dynamic. He is the fun crazy get-away-with-things one and I am the everything-else. My Love Thursday is Picture 11 at http://mothernaturesphotography.blogspot.com.
July 3, 2008 | Unregistered CommenterCharlotte
what a great portrait!

mine is a snapshot really... but i love our dog's expression here in response to our son's love!

http://www.flickr.com/photos/stacidaddona/2634021058/
July 3, 2008 | Unregistered CommenterStaci
A very sweet photo; first you see his eyes and then are drawn across the photo to hers - filled with admiration and love.
http://ascenderrisesabove.com/wordpress/?p=3850
July 3, 2008 | Unregistered CommenterAscenderRisesAbove
Not the greatest photo but the <3 is pretty obvious.

http://flickr.com/photos/25744047@N03/2634053264/
July 3, 2008 | Unregistered CommenterJanine

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