proof of life
We see beauty all around us and honor it every day through our lens. Why then do we find it difficult to turn that lens on our selves? We are worthy of that same celebration. We ARE beautiful. This year I decided to challenge my self image and step out from behind my camera and take a few shots of me. 52 to be exact. It has not been easy. I feel awkward and strange, and down right uncomfortable. I really find I struggle with full shots of myself, so instead i tend focus on pieces; my lashes, a single eye, a grin. Every once in a while magic happens. I capture a piece of me that makes my spirit smile, fills me with a bit of confidence, and keeps me on this journey of self. Each frame supplying me an opportunity for inspection and self acceptance, self love. I have wrinkles, oh yes and gray hairs, proof I have lived 37 years on this earth. Various lines from smiling, and laughing, and of course crying. Dimples that grace my baby pictures, still evident today. My father's crow's feet, now my own. Scars from wounds long healed. Freckles from beloved summers spent in the sun. One lone chicken pock mark on my face from that year I turned 12 and got so sick with them on my birthday. "Perfectly imperfect" I like to say. Lived in. Real. True. Just me, in all my flawed glory. The body my mother once carried in her own; the face my children smile freely at each morning; the lips my husband kisses; that same face that looks back at me each morning in the mirror as I brush my teeth, bedhead and all. Perfectly imperfect.
So today, turn your camera on yourself. Show us proof of your life. You are safe here, flaws and all. Embrace the beauty that is you. It is scary, I know how you feel. Trust me. You can do it. Perhaps start small and pick a little piece of you. Go ahead! Who knows, you may just be surprised by what you see. Inspired even.
Because guess what? You ARE beautiful.
Thursday, December 10, 2009 |
Kristin Zecchinelli | in
encouragement,
introspection ,
love,
self-portraits 












Reader Comments (52)
http://esterdaphne.blogspot.com/2009/11/un-po-di-me.html
http://www.flickr.com/photos/23206424@N07/4166984237/
http://shehanikay.blogspot.com/2009/12/emerging.html
I love the photograph, tones and composition, very powerful image.
Si x
thanx for sharing who you are in words and in images and thanx for the 'invite' do do the same...
http://www.flickr.com/photos/lucyloomis/4084695618/
♥cinco_mom
http://myso-calledhandmadelife.blogspot.com/2009/11/self-portraits.html
Know what?
I LOVE IT.
I expected to dislike the end result.
Instead, it boosted my self confidence to new levels.
That is a good thing : )
http://www.flickr.com/photos/mindwhisperings/4173725417/
Today's offering:
http://www.flickr.com/photos/kirstenmichelle/4173789637/
http://www.flickr.com/photos/juliealvarez/4174648776/
http://117hudson.blogspot.com/2009/12/girl-removed.html
http://www.flickr.com/photos/22634402@N02/4174064931/
Thank you for this post today! If you are interested here is a link to my 365 set on flickr. enjoy.
http://www.flickr.com/photos/glitch_nitch/sets/72157622463012283/
I was trying to find one to link...but i don't have any.
hmm...I guess there's no better time to start than now. ;) Thanks for the encouragement.
http://www.flickr.com/photos/mageejenks/2660849561/
i've struggled with the same thing. for years. first attemtp: a 365 on flickr a couple of years ago. lasted less than 2 months. tried 52 weeks. stopped after two or three posts. did the stop-and-start dance for a bit. then threw in the towel completely.
everytime i witness yet another brave soul begin and end one, i feel a tug in my heart. no, not for vanity anymore. not even to get brownie points with the peers because it's the in thing to do. (it's gotten old now.) i want to do it for the same reasons you wrote above - to see me and excavate and accept whatever bubbles up. the consistency of having the 'project' assures the acceptance and commitment part of the deal.
but it does take guts to look at oneself. consistently and gently every time. that much i discovered along the way. who knows. maybe 2010 will be mine. grays and warts and bumps, pocks and all!
http://www.flickr.com/photos/thistledowns/4174294889/
Here are some of my shots;
http://www.martinepetra.com/reflexivepronouns.html
http://www.flickr.com/photos/martinepetra/sets/72157594324226473/
Martine Petra
http://www.flickr.com/photos/8702729@N02/4159897091/
Anyway, here's a shot of me that my husband took and because I'm mostly covered I can handle it: http://www.flickr.com/photos/martintaylor/4073960533/
Thank you again for giving us permission to love our lived in selves.
http://www.flickr.com/photos/xantheberkeley/4174453007/
http://www.flickr.com/photos/childplay/4175400732/
:)
K, such a good reminder to take time to remember ourselves--the good, the better, and the imperfect ;)
I am a complete mush pile when I see "freckles"
turning the lens on me at 43 has become a real challenge... thanks for the inspiration I just might try again!
much love and gratitude!
Kristin (maine momma)
XO
http://itsjusthowiseethings.blogspot.com/2009/10/take-look-at-yourself.html
you are beautiful!
http://www.flickr.com/photos/papillonsky/sets/72157613170559543/
http://artcetera.squarespace.com/artcetera/2009/12/5/view-05-possibilities.html
Thanks for this post! I'm going to try to take more photos of myself in the future.
http://moseyalong.blogspot.com/2009/12/self-portrait.html
Mine..a piece of me...
http://slurpinglife.typepad.com/slurping_life/2009/11/all-events-are-blessings.html