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Pick me up

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I’ve had a rough couple of days. You know the ones. Where everything goes wrong and there’s not enough time and you just don’t handle things well. Where you lose your cool and let everything get the best of you. The days when you just look forward to bed. I know we’ve all been there but somehow it doesn’t make it any less disheartening.

I was wallowing around, groaning and grumbling about what was probably nothing discernable to anyone, while my husband opened a package that came in the mail. As he pulled out a bundled wad of newspaper about the size of a grapefruit, he slowly uncovered a small box made of polished metal and shiny black plastic.

“I got this for you because…because…you’re having a bad day”, he said soft and kind with his gentle smile and extended his offering to me.

I went from miserable to grateful in an instant. As I studied the pristine vintage Kodak Brownie Reflex 20, I marveled and smiled back. Totally speechless.

“And look, ” he continued, as he lifted the lid that covered the large viewfinder at the top, “it’s just like you wanted.”

Indeed. There is was, a viewfinder that framed the beautiful world outside of my muddled head; saturated color, bold shapes, bright light and clarity. Like a child, I began to squeal with delight and so began the instantaneous shift from pity party to creative celebration.

Playing with my new toy for about an hour pulled me out of my mood. Not for good unfortunately, for I do believe that hormones will have the best of me for a few more days, but certainly for long enough to be reminded that sometimes a kind gesture, a simple spark, a tiny new way to see the world is all it takes to shine light on the darkest places.

Tell me, when was the last time you had a shift like this, from blue to blush? Was it something someone said? What it using your own camera to mine out the gems of your life? Share with us they way you’ve experienced your own kind of “pick me up”.

Image of me holding my new muse (above) courtesy of my 8 year old daughter via my iphone.

Comments

  4. (Trying to post a comment in firefox now, because I seem to be having problems with posting here when I use IE.)

    Oh those hormones. Not my friends either. Normally today would be day on the couch for me, trying to fight off the somberness. But today I am baking pies, because my eldest turned seven today. His smile when he saw his new bike warmed my heart en melted away the grumpiness. He said: I can feel I am a little older today, mama. It feels different, but in a good way, I think. Gotta love that.

    Yesterday I decided to try and be more kind to the world. I guess I should understand a little better that I am included in that world too, and I should be more kind to myself too.

    http://www.the-f-girl.com/index.php/2012/01/25/be-kind/

    What an amazing gift from your love. He must know you so well. Isn't a love like that amazing?

    I hope you will feel better again soon!

  13. Lovely story. Those tender moments of kindness mean so much, especially on a bad day. Love the image!

  14. I have been stuck in a rut for weeks now. Feelings of inadequacy and a whole lot of self-pity. While working on my blog last night, I found an old picture I took of my son when I had just purchased my new Nikon, taken at a time when I really was completely oblivious to how a camera like that worked. Yet it's one of my favorite images ever, and its bright colors and well, the subject himself made me smile. Just like that a little of my burden lifted. Photography does that for me, it takes me to a different state of mind. Thanks for your post, I'm glad I'm not the only one that has her momments. x
    http://www.flickr.com/photos/mrhinefoto/6763438601/

  15. My husband had his second shoulder surgery in six weeks last week. Both of my grown children are (temporarily) living back at home. Work has been difficult and winter finally decided to show it's face in the Inland Northwest. My latest Project 365 (ending in six days) has left me feeling frustrated & uninspired.

    Imagine my surprise & delight when my step-daughter and granddaughter brought me roses a few days ago.

    http://www.flickr.com/photos/34977978@N05/6758017265/

  18. I loved this article because of your honesty. I am a very glass half-full gal but also have days like this (I'm having one today) and it is such a joy when you go from "blue to blush." (great phrase too) The most effective mood changing thing for me is a walk in nature with my dog. I feel so much energy from the sun and the trees and the pleasure is multiplied when I can share the moment with my sweet dog.

    I think the important thing to remember is that you have the power to elevate your mood by making a choice to do so.

    Thanks for a good post. I'm such a Shutter Sisters nerdy fan already, these images and shared moments make it even better! 🙂

  20. What a sweet story, and sweet man!
    Love this photo, and what a fun new camera to play with.
    My husband does a great job of cheering me up when I need it. Often the ways in which he succeeds have much to do with some sort of food. 🙂

  21. I've had some "stuff" going on lately and had parked myself on the couch this afternoon with a cover over my head, hiding from the world and not answering the phone. I haven't checked into Shutter Sisters lately and for some reason, I just logged on to the website. Thanks for sharing your story…I really could relate and it gave me a "pick me up"! I don't think my husband will have a new camera for me when I pick him up at the train station in a half hour, but I am smiling again…!

  24. A heartwarming story and I'm jealous of you.
    My medicine for bad days always be my nieces and nephews.
    They always light up my darker days.

  25. I was inspired by this post especially this line "a kind gesture, a simple spark, a tiny new way to see the world is all it takes to shine light on the darkest places".

  26. I hope you had fun with your gift! This post really hit home with me. January has felt like one obstacle after another and I'm trying to just get through it. I finally just took some photos of the dogs this morning to get outside and get some fresh air. http://www.michellebodamer.com/blog/2012/1/27/rainy-day-january-studio-update-news.html

    Mostly though, as much as I love winter I'm thinking I could definitely use a healthy dose of "something amazing" happening and an early arrival of Spring.

    Also chocolate seems to be helping. 😉

  27. Oh what a sweet, wonderful gesture! Don't you love when the people around you do little things like that when they know you needed it most and you expect it the least? Life has been truly rough for my lately. I had a particularly bad day last week, and I opened the front door to go get the mail and on the doorstep was a package for me. I opened it and revealed the sweetest heart-adorned teacup sent by my aunt as an early Valentine's Day. Instantly I felt better, felt loved, felt I could I breathe a little.

  28. What a beautiful post! Love it! And my moment….this past Thursday night at a photo exhibit/contest reception when a stranger came up to me and told me how much she liked my work. I went from 'mediocre' to 'euphoric' in a second! In fact, I'm still on cloud 9!

  29. Hi…
    thanks for posting such information.I experienced that kind of pick me up from a splash of color the other day.I loved this article because of your honesty. I am a very glass half-full gal but also have days like this (I'm having one today) and it is such a joy when you go from "blue to blush." (great phrase too) The most effective mood changing thing for me is a walk in nature with my dog. I feel so much energy from the sun and the trees and the pleasure is multiplied when I can share the moment with my sweet dog.nice article and post more article.